Never pre-occupy yourself in a relationship or friendship that you feel is not good for you. Give yourself sometime to find the thing that is best for you, because emotional neediness leads to greediness, unhappiness and pain. You have to love yourself first before you can love someone else, and when you love yourself, you want desire the neediness for a false pre occupied relationship. You'll take the time to FIND THE BEST IN YOU and when you find the best in you, you'll find what’s best for you, and that will take time and discipline. But the first love is self-love!
2. BECOME ONE WITH YOURSELF
Please make sure you do your best to become one with you before you try to become one with another. If you are divided or not whole within yourself, you will never be happy you or with someone else. YOU GOTTA LOVE YOU and not in the selfish selfless inauthentic fraudulent kind of way. It has to be pure love through actions and repetition of positive affirmations and thought.
A person who loves you will never intentionally make you feel bad or try to manipulate you mentally. One who loves you or is trying to love you will always ask how can they help you. But getting back to you is what this is about. It’s about you gaining control over your mind and not allowing unknown negative unconscious energies to sneak into your conscious mind.
3. GUARD YOUR MIND
HOW TO LOVE SOMEONE ELSE IS TO FIRST LOVE YOURSELF